Monday, November 23, 2009

Seachange

Something happened over the weekend that has been waiting to happen for a fair while. One of those events that you hope never comes round but really it was inevitable that it would. It was a completely emotional event (no humans or animals were physically damaged :-))

So from Saturday to Sunday things are completely different, priorities have suddenly shifted and the world has a whole new perspective.

Given two and a half hours in a car driving back from Auckland airport late last night husband and I started brainstorming about where this epiphany will lead us and how long it will take to get there. We didn't reach any conclusions but we came up with a lot of ideas that need following up. We did agree quite early in the piece to stay married for the forseeable future - which was never an issue in the first place but it is always good to establish the ground rules on life changes early in the discussion don't you think...

Somehow I think that we will be looking at some big changes in the next year or two. It feels a very positive outcome from the extremely negative event that precipated it.

3 comments:

The Webbers Living a Good Life, again said...

Hope everything is ok with you. XX

wino said...
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wino said...

Yeah Sue all good really, just had a fairly nasty family meltdown but once your head stops spinning over how disfunctional people can really get that is sort of liberating... (and that is probably as much as I want to go into it really in public LOL).

Apart from that I'm just a little overworked and have to get some teeth out on Monday :-( - life goes on.